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2011-12-08T02:30:00.001-08:00

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2011-12-06T00:53:00.001-08:00

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I started dated this girl about 9 months ago, a month in she tells me she escorted. I'm in love with her but for some reasons when I look at her all I picture is another dude inside her its horrible and killing me! what do I do?

2011-11-14T08:52:00.001-08:00

Most people have a sexual past...do you think this way with women in general (ie picture other 'dudes' inside her) or is her sexual past only an issue because of her job as an escort? I personally don't see why you should view it differently to a girl who has multiple partners that hasn't escorted. It's in her past and she's been very open with you. If you care for her and want to make it work you need to put her past job where it should be - in the past, and move forwards. It's not very nice for her if you are thinking about her with other men when you are having sex with her, because I can guarentee she won't be thinking about her past clients when she's having sex with you - she will be thinking about you.

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Do you consider yourself to be happier now than when you were escorting? Also interested to know how you define happiness, and what you think the key ingredients are to achieving it, from your own experiences. Are sex, money & 'success' key ingredients?

2011-11-10T02:11:00.001-08:00

I am generally a very happy person, and when I was escorting yes I was happy with my profession, and I am equally happy now on my exciting journey since I finished escorting. Everyone has different values/desires you can't define one formular that will make everyone happy because everyone is different.

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have you ever had sex so bad that when you were done you thought (or said out loud) "why did i bother?"

2011-11-08T01:02:00.003-08:00

yup, but also had some great sex too so it balances out

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Which of Santa's lists would you prefer to be on naughty or nice?

2011-11-08T01:02:00.001-08:00

naughty for sure. my mum still makes us stockings. bless :) they're not naughty though we get satsumas, nuts, socks and little toys lol

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have you ever done something you didn't like or didn't want to do because you "just need the money"?

2011-10-22T04:51:00.001-07:00

oh yea! all the time when I was on minimum wage. never again

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My theory is that she offloads all of her guilt on to me and she uses me to give her a alibi, when in fact she's meeting up with her lover! I'm friends with her foremost but I don't want to get caught up in her lies. Should I subtly end our friendship?

2011-10-19T01:35:00.001-07:00

if you still want to be friends tell her you are no longer going to be her alibi, will not cover for her and you don't want to hear anything about her cheating or problems with her husband - however from what you have said she sounds quite selfish, so maybe ending subtly would be best. you don't want her to drag you down with her problems because from what you have said it seems like a one way friendship

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I've recently joined a dating website and stated I want a relationship but responses from men are clearly after 1 thing!I've been on 2 dates and their profile/pictures looked great but in real life nothing like their profiles. Where an I going wrong?!

2011-10-19T01:33:00.001-07:00

let me guess... plenty of fish? are you paying? if you don't pay for dating sites then you won't have any serious people looking to date... that goes for the free option on match too. have you tried http://www.mysinglefriend.com ?

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A work colleague whom I also socialise with outside of work has confided in me that she's having an affair. She blames her husbands lack of interest in her for the reason why. Her husband is a good friend of mine.should I tell him or keep my mouth shut?!

2011-10-18T10:21:00.001-07:00

sounds like she wants you to tell him! why on earth would she tell you if she knows you're friends with him? Hmmm, difficult one. these things can end up back firing and you can be painted as the bad guy. I'd tread carefully. are you closer to him or her?

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Hi Rebecca. Do you relationship advice for girls as well as guys? I often get my female friends asking me for advice and at times I really struggle what to tell them!

2011-10-18T10:15:00.001-07:00

having worked prodominently with men for about 13 years I know lot about them, so yes I can certainly advise women. what sort of questions do you get asked?

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Do you miss the 'buzz' of being an escort, and having sex on a regular basis? I guess if you are happy within yourself, you don't really need the 'buzz' or constant sex. Has it taken a while for you to adjust in how you relate to people?

2011-10-18T06:16:00.001-07:00

I didn't get a buzz from the sex but the lifestyle gave me a buzz, and yes sometimes I miss that. I went without sex for a year and half when i finished escorting. I enjoy sex very much, but I wanted to prove to myself that i could go without. I don't get enjoyement from one night stands there has to be a deeper connection there.

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when you get negative comments or "hate" from someone, do you find it easier to easier to brush away comments that come from men or women?

2011-10-18T06:14:00.001-07:00

haters are haters male or female makes no difference, I don't let them bother me, haters make me stronger :)

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So have you read the Daniel Rose's Sex God Method ebook or not? ;)

2011-10-04T09:35:00.001-07:00

nope. should I?

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2011-10-03T01:32:00.001-07:00

Guys send me your dating/relationship/women questions for top advice from your Uk dating coach http://formspring.me/RebeccaGFE

many dating sites prohibit users from posting information like e-mail addressed and in some cases even real names. if you've joined a site but don't want to pay to be a long-term, or even short term, subscriber, do you advocate trying to skirt this rule?

2011-10-03T01:31:00.001-07:00

no I don't advise skirting this rule, it's there for a reason - to protect people. There's lots of weirdos out there.

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You said that being an ex-escort puts men off. Personally, I've only ever had sex with prostitutes, so a prostitute girlfriend or wife would be perfect for me. Don't give up, there must be loads of men who like prostitutes so much, they want to marry one.

2011-10-03T01:30:00.001-07:00

I'm very happy and content as I am. many friends that I had in the biz were married or had partners that were supportive of their job. I no longer escort and have a number of exciting projects on the go. Everyone has a past and skeletons in the closet, it's just mine are in the open :)

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What's your favorite saying?

2011-09-05T01:42:00.001-07:00

I gotta a few, here's some of my faves....
'we are a creation of our own mind' - Buddah
'you snooze you lose' - random
'he who dares Rodney, he who dares' Only Fools and Horses :D

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Are you still practising aikido? i think we were in class together at the beginning but I stopped after a few classes. James here. What ryu are you now?

2011-09-05T01:40:00.001-07:00

yes. I'm doing my black belt now, but I've done my ankle in so haven't been training for a month or so :(

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read your blog post of aug. 7. while i consider myself a positive person, i've also been shy & introverted at times. how do you keep a woman's initial interest if you're not a naturally boisterous or talkative person?

2011-08-30T16:16:00.001-07:00

be interested and interesting. Genuine interest will keep a woman attentive, and then she's doing most of the talking :) It's one of the biggest mistakes men make, they are simply not interested enough in a woman; getting to know her and finding out what she's about. we can all be shy and introverted sometimes, it's nothing to concern yourself with - especially because you say you are only that way some of the time.

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Do you think couples speak too much in a relationship. Get themselves tied in knots cos of it. And get worried when they've nothing to say. When words aren't really what is required. Just being with each other in the situation is very often enough.

2011-08-30T16:11:00.001-07:00

So sorry I have just seen I din't reply to this. I've just moved house so I'm still catching up with things :) no i think couples don't speak enough, and aren't clear with their communication. Signs/actions and words are all misread/misunderstood. Great book to read is the Five Love Languages :)

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a friend & i fancy each other & have talked about a relationship. she doesn't think she can be in a romantic relationship with me, though, because i watch & collect porn. is there a way to convince her i can set aside the porn for her without selling it?

2011-08-11T01:22:00.001-07:00

say if you're with her you won't need any porn ;-p hide it well though, women can sniff it out :D if she finds it she will never trust you

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YOU JUST WOKE UP NAKED IN BED NEXT TO ME. Using only 3 words, what would you say to me? ...Note: If you comment, you must copy and and ask me the same question. So I comment on yours as well. Be a good sport. Play along :)

2011-08-11T01:18:00.001-07:00

cup of tea ;-p

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you've been going out with someone for a short amount of time you like each other, but haven't had sex yet... every time you suggest dinner, a pub or music club to get to know her better, she suggests going dancing or partying... what to do?

2011-08-07T01:13:00.001-07:00

is there equal physical attraction on both sides? How far have you gone with each other? are you sure that your intentions are clear and she's not thinking of you as a 'friend'?

There are some girls that abuse the generosity of guys that they know fancy them and will string them along when it suits them. If they need lifts, someone to hang out with, someone to take them out for drinks/food etc... Be careful that this isn't your situation.

She's calling the shots and you're doing whatever she wants to do - she sounds a bit selfish to me. Read my blog post about being the leader... and turn the tables, don't agree to go where she wants to go. You need to be assertive and pull back the reins.

http://www.datingadviceformen.co.uk/2011/08/dating-advice-for-men-be-the-leader/

Women/people in general don't respect people who are pushovers. You have a right to do things you want to do, and if she doesn't want to do them, find someone else. You will know if she is abusing your generosity if she refuses to do the things you want to do. It could just be that she's a party girl and that's who she is, so you either accept her for that or move on. Are you driving her to these parties? If so go back to my earlier comment above!

Also I think you will find this post relevant/interesting, as it lays out what women want...

http://www.datingadviceformen.co.uk/2011/07/dating-advice-best-piece-of-marketing-advice-forget-what-you-want-focus-on-what-value-you-can-give-to-others-relevant-to-dating-do-you-think/

I hope this helps :)

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I am dating a lady that I intially met as an escort. Shortly afterwards we started dating and she told me she loved me...Now I have fallen in love with her. What are your experiences and your suggestions for two people that are in love that initiallty met

2011-08-03T10:32:00.001-07:00

I know of clients that have met their girlfriend/partners through escorting. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't. Most guys can't handle the girl still escorting. Usually they want them to stop escorting and that's when there's problems. Girls escorting generally like to earn their own money, and have a good standard of living, so they may find it hard to be a 'kept woman' so to speak, where they aren't escorting, but aren't earning their own money, so relying 100% on a man to provide for them. My advice would be to put no pressure on her to stop, either accept her as she is an an escort or walk away. She will stop in her own time, if/when she is ready to do so. It must be her choice.

Not knowing either of you, I can't really offer any personal advice, but I wish you all the very best, and I hope it works out for you. Do feel free to write if you have any more specific questions :)

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Hi Rebecca jsu finished your book, very good indeed x

2011-07-28T03:07:00.001-07:00

Thank you :) what did you enjoy about it? I'd love you to email me your feedback if you have time

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during one of your "sex sessions", for lack of a better term, have you & your partner simply sat & masturbated together without touching each other until after you both have had orgasms?

2011-07-28T02:01:00.001-07:00

hell yea! you can't beat a bit of mutual mastturbation! :)

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would you consider a guy/girl undateable if they didn't like the same music you did?

2011-07-06T00:39:00.001-07:00

not at all. However i have a very broad music taste from Metalica, to Dolly Parton, from Eminem to Tina Turner :)

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to the women i am friends with, i'm usually the guy they complain to about their asshole boyfriends when i inevitably hear "why can't i find a guy just like you?" how do i get them to dump their asshole boyfriends and choose me?

2011-05-27T03:29:00.001-07:00

women are with a**holes because they choose to be. Not all women want a**holes, but those that do are with them because they make that choice. They wouldn't ever go out with you because you're not the type of guy they like. There are plenty of women, myself included that wouldn't put up with guys being a**holes.

Why not look for the women who like guys that treat them with respect rather than the ones that don't?

Everyone enjoys moaning, especially in the Uk :) but if these women were that unhappy they would leave these guys. I don't have any time or sympathy for people that moan about a situation and do nothing to change it. I want someone with a bit of back bone, someone that won't put up with any cr*p. These women are weak and lack self respect, if they choose to be in a relationship where they are unhappy. Some people just enjoy moaning, and these women are like that - not happy unless they're unhappy :D

Look for women who like good men who respect them and not bad boys :)

You need to look at why you are drawn to those types of women. If I were you, that would be my concern (NOT why the women didn't want you), and look at how you can change yourself to attract the right sort of women. That's my advice, I hope it helps.

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You seem very pretty, in more ways than one. From what I have seen and read about you. What are you looking for in a relationship, and how do you meet potentially suitable guys? If your criteria matches my 'profile', I'd like to ask you out on a date.

2011-05-27T01:26:00.001-07:00

Thank you for your offer and compliments (I do get asked via social media to meet guys and to go on dates) however it's not something I would ever do. Sorry. The guys I date are people that I meet in my day to day life.

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It is sometimes said that men think about only two things most of the time. Money & sex. But when they get them they always want more. Never satisfied. What do you think the solution is? Could men benefit from thinking more like women?

2011-05-27T01:24:00.001-07:00

ooo that's a tough question :/ If we all knew the answer to that I guess there would be no infidelity (from men anyway :) I think the only way to make people realise that greed in any form is distructive is to give them the shock factor, and show them how little some other people have. Ie charity work in third world countries... although i'm not sure how that would work for sex :/ When people get greedy they lose all rationality and sensibility and become selfish, and it's difficult to reach out to people and to get any understanding from them when they are like this.

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Do you practice what you preach, in advising people who are looking for a relationship the best way to go about it? Or do you have your own 'approach'?

2011-05-27T01:14:00.001-07:00

My advice about dating is for men, so I learn a lot from the way men approach me, and the men I dated as an escort :) My new date coaching website will be up and running in the next few weeks, so watch this space :)

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Has escorting put you off seeking a relationship with 'the right person'? i.e. all men have the potential to stray off the beaten path. Do you think men know what love is, and what a relationship means?

2011-05-27T01:13:00.001-07:00

I find it sad and patronising that people think the way you do (many men share the same view as you). I don't mean to offend, but it's frustrating. I had relationships when I was escorting, and I will have relationships in the future. No not every man is a cheater, and yes like every other human being I have the capacity to love. It's such a shame that men assume that every woman that has worked as an escort must be missing the ability to love, cherish, and trust a man. Yes some women get damaged working as an escort, but then there's lots of things that damage a person - physical and mental abuse. I kept my head above water whilst I escorted, and have maintained being a very loving and giving person.

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With all this talk about celebs, gagging orders & keeping their names out of papers. From your ex client list anybody famous who might be worried now since you've become known in the public eye lol !

2011-05-20T04:07:00.001-07:00

Interesting question. I'm sure my ex clients won't be outing me - I'm already 'self' outed, and I wouldn't out them, so I think we're safe :D There was a goverment official that was outed by the papers that I wrote about in my book. Cheeky begger tried to rip me off, but I got my money back and he ended up in jail (nothing to do with me btw lol). One of personal fave stories from my book :) what goes around comes around

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Are you still there? You're not answering my questions, gorgeous.

2011-05-20T04:04:00.001-07:00

to be honest I'm bored of talking about sex and penises. Sorry! If you can think of something interesting to ask that isn't about sex and sexual body parts, then I'll happily answer :)

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What makes for the most heavenly cunnilingus?

2011-05-13T14:55:00.001-07:00

long, slow, gentle, consistent, light pressure

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As you prefer circumcised, would you have the operation performed on your sons, should you have any?

2011-05-13T14:54:00.003-07:00

hell no! thats child abuse. I believe it should be a choice

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Do you prefer that your men be fully shaved? Are you?

2011-05-13T14:54:00.001-07:00

no - trimmed

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Please elaborate on why you prefer circumcised. Does it affect the feeling of penetrative sex?

2011-05-13T14:53:00.001-07:00

cleaner and smoother. It is only a preference. Out of my long term boys only one was circumcised. No it doesn't affect the feel of penetrative sex

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I was asking in the context of men/woman & agree with your comments. I lost my true soulmate some years ago in this way & there is not a week that goes by without me having some special memories of her. My life was empty without her. But you do move on

2011-05-11T11:29:00.001-07:00

yes its a shame when it happens like that. I lost a very special friend when he couldn't deal with the fact we would never be an item. It's sad for both people. I wish you good health and happiness x

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Do you think platonic relaionships really work ?

2011-05-10T01:19:00.001-07:00

All my relationships are currently platonic. When you say 'work' what do you mean? I don't understand in what context you are asking. We have a relationship of sorts with family/friends/work colleagues.

If you mean between men and women - they 'work' if both can accept the platonic relationship, however more often than not their is one that fancies the other and if that's not reciprocated, it can be a challenging relationship in the terms of friendship/relationship. I hope this answers your question.

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When you date now does being an 'ex escort' cause any reservations from your dates & what is the normal reaction from them

2011-05-08T14:22:00.001-07:00

I am losing faith in men! Lol. And that's because for some reason as soon as people find out about my past (it's difficult to be discreet now I am promoting a book and new businesses where my past experiences give me expertise) their whole opinion of me changes. I watch it happen in some peoples faces. I don't tell guys on a first date, and try to hold off for at least a couple of dates because I don't want people to judge me.

Recently this year I've been on a few dates, and they have been very disappointing. The people that I have eventually had any sort of intimacy with that know what my past job entailed, don't treat me as a human being, as a lady, or with any sort of respect.

I actually enjoyed fooling around in bed on my escort dates more, and the men respected me more as an escort than the men I meet now I am out of it. How sad is that? Btw... no I'm not tempted to escort again! *in case you were wondering :)*

Guys I date assume that they are entitled to have sex with me, because it was my job, so I must be there for their pleasure/entertainment.

I think some men are intimidated by my past job, but really I am just a normal country bumpkin girl, who's very caring and loving.

When I find the right person they will see past the job I did for ten years, and accept and respect me for the loyal, genuine person I am today.

So I'm going to forget the whole dating thing for now and concentrate on my businesses.

Maybe I'll become a nun ;-p

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Do you have any plans. Beyond our business. Or do you focus on what you are doing right now as much as possible. Without any regrets about the past, or worries about the future. ?

2011-05-08T14:03:00.001-07:00

Beyond 'our business'?? I'm not sure what that means I'm not in business with anyone. I am focussing on my new businesses and very much enjoying the journey and new challenges. I don't have any regrets, but some worries about my future. Mainly I worry if I will find a guy to settle down with who is open minded and doesn't hold my past against me - someone that sees me for the genuine person I am, and who doesn't define me by my 'escort past'.

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Just found out my girlfriend is an escort, she hid this from me so I've dumped her I can't even stomach looking at her and never will. Just waiting for the HIV test now yay. So what do you think of women who escort and try and date at the same time?

2011-03-31T15:01:00.001-07:00

If you have any further concerns or want any advice about getting your head around what has just happened, please feel free to email me via my website. I'd be more than happy to help.

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Just found out my girlfriend is an escort, she hid this from me so I've dumped her I can't even stomach looking at her and never will. Just waiting for the HIV test now yay. So what do you think of women who escort and try and date at the same time?

2011-03-31T14:59:00.001-07:00

Please don't worry about the HIV test. Escorts are some of the cleanest ladies around. I am confident you will be fine. I never had an std in 9 years working as an escort. I was honest with all of my boyfriends. I had 3 long term relationships. I think any sort of deceit is wrong and I'm sorry that she did it behind your back. In her defence I can only say that she may have deeply cared for you/loved you, and didn't want to lose you, so she kept it a secret. Not the right thing to do,but the longer you leave a secret/lie then the harder it is to tell the truth. I can completely understand that men don't want to date escorts, but it is a job, and nothing more than that. It does take a special sort of guy to date an escort, and that's no disrespect to those that wouldn't. Why don't you have a read of my book The Girlfriend Experience? I think it will help you understand why women chose this profession. I know of many escorts that are married and in relationships and their men are fully aware and accept what they do. One of my ex'es said he could never go out with an escort, then after hanging out with him for a couple of weeks, he got to know me as a person, I spoke about my work and explained to him that people got my body but not 'me'. For me to be inimate with someone and genuinely enjoy it, there needs to be an emotional connection. Eventually he understood that. Our intimacy time was special and I cherished it. o in the end he didn't judge me by my work, and ended up saying he could easily fall in love with me, and we did fall in love.

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You specialised in overnight bookings and long weekends with clients. Many requests for such expensive bookings tend to be from fantasists rather than genuine clients. How did you screen out the timewasters?

2011-03-29T13:15:00.001-07:00

Over time it became easy to spot time wasters from their emails or a short phone conversation. Generally my weekend bookings and longer engagements came from people I had seen before. I always took deposits for anything over an overnight, and this cut out time wasters. I am offering a coaching service by phone or email for ladies who want to become escorts, you might find my services on this page useful... http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv/how-to-become-an-escort/

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Hi Bea - Thanks for a very interesting book! Couldnt put it down and read it in a few days! :) Have been thinking of escorting myself and thought I'd read your book to get some insight into the "real" world of escorting. Thanks for sharing ur experiences!

2011-03-12T08:01:00.001-08:00

thank you for your feedback, I am so pleased you enjoyed my book. How did you hear about it? So what did you decide after reading my book? I am now offering escort mentoring/coaching and I'm surprised at how much interest there is, so if you do want to start and need some help and advice, do take a look here at the services I offer... http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv/how-to-become-an-escort/

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Would like to ask you about your new "platonic escort" service. Does this really work? Have been thinking of it myself but is there really a demand for this? Seem to be able to find only rather tacky websites out there that offer this.. Thanks. Ziggy

2011-03-12T07:58:00.001-08:00

I very, very rarely get platonic dates, so don't give up your day job lol :) There are some, but guess it's easier for me as I already had the traffic going to my site, but to start from scratch, I'm not sure. And I'm guessing you're a guy, so once again, I'm not sure of what it's like for men. You'll need to ask guys that offer platonic dates. I would imagine there is more of a service for men offering platonic dates than there is for women. I don't know of any agencies/listing sites that advertise platonic dates. Sorry I can't be of more help.

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Rebecca Dakin, Infidelity Expert, dating coach and author of The Girlfriend Experience

2011-03-09T14:43:00.001-08:00

Please check out my new blog.....
http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv

Here are my other new websites....

http://www.rebeccadakin.com

http://www.infidelityexpert.co.uk

Rebecca Dakin, Infidelity expert and author of The Girlfriend Experience

2011-03-09T14:40:00.000-08:00

Please check out my new blog.....

http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv

Here are my other new websites....

http://www.rebeccadakin.com

http://www.infidelityexpert.co.uk

Rebecca Dakin, Infidelity expert and author of The Girlfriend Experience

2010-11-30T07:34:00.000-08:00

Please check out my new blog.....

http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv

Here are my other new websites....

http://www.rebeccadakin.com

http://www.infidelityexpert.co.uk

Hold your horses it's the very sexy and naughty Freya!

2009-11-18T09:08:00.000-08:00

Freya is a bubbly, fun lady in her late thirties whose conversational skills means she puts people quickly at ease and makes people very comfortable. She has a gorgeous figure and is curvy in all the right places.

Meeting Freya I know her photos do not do her justice because she is so much more attractive in real life, and has a warm smile and hearty laugh.

You would be proud to have Freya on your arm, because she has the ability to mix with a variety of people in all sorts of social situations. Her interests include dining out, theatre, salsa dancing, travel and museums.

For more information and to book Freya please check my 'Friends' page.....

Check out my gorgeous new friend Vanessa!

2009-08-06T00:45:00.000-07:00

I've been that wrapped up with things I forgot to tell you about the gorgeous Vanessa! I met her about a month or so ago. You can find her photos on my friends page.

My first thoughts when I met Vanessa were that she is a very warm, friendly and poised young lady. She’s in her mid thirties and is clearly a well educated and cultured lady.

To add to that she’s a strikingly attractive woman. Vanessa is particularly admired for her exceptionally beautiful feet, which she always keeps perfectly pedicured. As well as offering a girlfriend experience making her particularly suited to longer dates including lunch or dinner, Sophia also offers a mild domination service.

She particularly enjoys dining out and taking her time to get to know her dates; either at cosy country pubs or fine restaurants. Her other interests include classical music and horse riding.

With her warm, engaging personality, you will find her a wonderful companion for an evening out, and even better for an evening in!

She offers an incall service in W2 - 5mins from Paddington and Lancaster Gate Station.

Advanced bookings are appreciated.

With notice Vanessa is available to travel both nationally and internationally.

Her rates for an incall are from £200 for one hour, to £500 for a 4 hour lunch or dinner date.

Outcall rates from £450 for 2 hours.

To book a date with Vanessa, please send your email enquiry to my friend Heather who will arrange for her to meet you at heather.joy23@yahoo.co.uk

Little Miss Independent....

2009-07-29T05:28:00.000-07:00

The other day I was preparing for an outdoor concert with a friend. I donned my sexy pink wellies, jeans and a pink rain coat, my hair was the 'just got out of bed look' tousled and wavy and I had no make up on apart from some tinted moisturiser.

I went to wait at the bus stop for a bus to town and as I arrived an older gent was eyeing me up. I stood behind him uncomfortably away from his wandering eyes, but he looked back at me and sparked up conversation about the buses. I was friendly towards him. He asked where I was going, and then suggested walking further down the road to get the choice of 4 buses rather than just the two from where we were standing. I don't frequent buses so this was news to me. I walked down with him and he comented that I was getting some admiring glances from cars passing by. He didn't really ask anything about me until we got on the bus and he sat next to me. He asked if I was single and when I said I was he did a character analysis about me based on our brief conversation about buses and how I looked and it went like this ....

'You look like a free spirit. I reckon you never stay in one place for a long time. I think you like to travel. You look really independent. I bet you don't want to settle down and have kids.'

I was horrified that this was the impression I was giving with my none made up face and pink wellies.

It occurred to me that one of the reasons I am single is because I may be giving off the wrong vibes! So what do I have to do to look like I want to settle down? Dye my hair brown and start dressing frumpily? Lol :) I am independent but I have to be because I am single. However I'd love to be with someone and feel looked after and cared for.

It occurred to me that I do get stereo typed with the boobs and blond hair. However I never dress tartily, and only wear full make up if I am going out in the town for a night on the tiles - which isn't often nowadays! I'm quite a contridiction to this stereo type, but I like how I look and I'm not changing that for anyone! :)

Grooming tips for single men...

2009-07-20T10:19:00.000-07:00

I was inspired by one of my regular single gents to compile this list... and btw no these do not all apply to him! Lol

If you think about what you like for a woman, then just apply the same to yourself for example - if you appreciate the smell of a woman who wears perfume then...

- Make sure YOU are always smelling fresh with aftershave or some sort of fragrance, but not too much! :)

-Keep all facial, nasal and ear hair trimmed.

- Don't think 'I don't have a girlfriend so I don't have the make the effort' because if you think like that you'll never get one! Unfortunately in this world looks do count. You don't have to be the best looking bloke but you do need to look like you look after yourself and take care and pride in your appearance.

- Make sure your hair (if you have it) and glasses (if you wear them) suit your face. If you're not sure, just ask. Go to a proper hairdressers and speak to a stylist, and an optician regarding glasses.

- Clothing is difficult for men, especially single ones. Men tend to go for 'safe' options which make them blend in, and depending on colours you can also make yourself look washed out. If you have greyish hair and pale skin, don't go for greyish clothes and dull browns because they will wash you out even more. Go for colours like light to mid blue or even navy. Noone expects men to be an expert in the field of clothing, but it depends how much you actually want to find a special lady. If you're not having any luck then you should at least make sure that your appearence is sorted before you move onto building confidence etc... because once you look the part, you will start to feel the part, then when you feel it it's easier to act it!

I know men don't like asking for anything but you need to get over it! Lol. Shops like House of Frazer all have personal shoppers available and it's a free service. If you book an appointment they will talk through any clothes you want to buy and help advise you on a new look. Don't say 'no' to everything they pick up. It's good to try things you wouldn't normally try - you will be surprised. Women are so good at shopping because we do ask advice and we do listen to what other people think, so we learn fast what suits us.

Look in mens magazines for ideas or take note of which celebrities styles you like. It's a good starting point if you get a personal shopper to take some ideas with you.

- Look tidy. I hate seeing slightly over weight men with oversized clothing all untucked. This makes you look bigger! The right sized shirt tucked in looks much nicer and will make you look trimmer! Just call me Gok Wan :))) hehe

- Stand up tall don't slouch and walk confidentally. This will be easier if you get yourself a style and you feel comfortable with what you are wearing.

- And don't forget the shoes women as you know are obsessed with shoes and we do take note of a mans shoes.

.... I guarentee if you take note of these tips women will start to take notice of you :)

Amber and Bea turn heads at Nottingham races!

2009-07-20T09:14:00.000-07:00

Amber and I had a wonderful day at Nottingham Ladies day. We planned to go quite a few weeks in advance, but I'd been mega busy with various things and hadn't even decided what to wear. Amber is super organised and had arranged all her outfit in plenty of time. A week before I still had nothing to wear when I found out Amber was wearing a hat!!! So I had a mad panic to get an outfit together, complete with hat. I russled up a Cavalli flower print dress that had been hiding in my wardrobe, and then I went on an internet mission to track down hat hire in Nottingham.

I found a lovely lady whose house I went to on the Friday before to look at her collection and thankfully she found me just the hat! It cost me £20 to hire. Bargain!

We both had our barnets done in the morning, and after a long leisurely get ready we went for our pre-races lunch and champgne. The food was delicious and we washed it down with a chilled bottle of rose.

As soon as we arrived at the races we were approached by a photographer wanting to take our photo for a magazine, so we posed with our champagne in the sunshine :)

We bet on most of the races, and won just one race each. Amber and I betting when we are tipsy don't make a good team - remember the chips we left on the table in Vegas? :) Well Amber forgot to check her tickets until she saw me doing it as I put each next bet on, and thank goodness she started checking because she'd won!

Lots of people said we should be in the best dressed competition, but we hovvered around and didn't get noticed by whoever it was that was looking out. How rude! :)

We had such a fun day. It ended up with us sharing a taxi into Nottingham to go to a couple of bars before calling it a night.

My court case...

2009-07-20T08:26:00.000-07:00

Unfortunately I lost my case in court regarding my website and filming problems. I did not have a good solicitor. He let me down and he didn't do my already flimsy case (due to lack of written evidence) any justice. However I learnt a lot from the experience;

- Not everyone is as honest as me - in fact some are willing to lie to a judge in a court room!

- There is no such thing as friends when it comes to business.

- People are full of false promises. I have been far too trusting taking people on their word.

- Get a clear written agreement for anything I am paying someone to do.

- Life isn't fair! :)

However I believe in karma - what goes around comes around!

Ugly

2009-07-06T08:26:00.000-07:00

I stumbled across http://betedejour.blogspot.com/2008/01/30-year-old-virgin.html . I have just ordered the book Bete De Jour, The Diary of an Ugly Man and I'm thoroughly looking forward to reading it.

The title touched me, that someone would consider themselves ugly. It saddens me how shallow people are and how cruel people can be.

Don't get me wrong I do enjoy perks from willing guys when I know I am looking my best. For example my hairdresser has given me free products, and once let me rack up a bill of a couple of hundred quid whilst I sorted out a new credit card. I've had various help with my car and the guys have said 'don't worry about it' when I've asked what I owe. Whilst I appreciate these little extras I am concious that if I didn't look good then I wouldn't get them.

I can honestly say I don't call people ugly. In my opinion only ugly people use the word ugly, and when I use the word in this text it's not in relation to how they physically look, but more the person they are.

It's a sensitive thing for me because of the years of bullying I had for how I looked. Something reminded me of those days the other day....

I was parked up in my car I'd just arrived at a friends. It was when it was mega hot and admittedly I didn't look my best. I was sweaty, wearing no make up and I no doubt was quite red. A couple of guys cycled past me seeing the blonde hair from behind, and as they passed the window they looked in saw my sweaty face and said 'urrgh oh no'! Clearly they were disappointed not to see a flawless, made up blonde vixen. It was a little bruise to the old ego! Lol :)

Race for Life

2009-06-22T00:53:00.001-07:00

Yesterday I walked my 5 K for cancer research. It was a beautiful day! After a rather embarrassing late start due to a touch of asthma (before the race!!) I got under way and the walk was fine. We all did a ten minute warm up before starting the walk. It was a great day for a great cause. Thanks so much to those of you who sponsored me. I raised over £400 :) XXXX

Its that time of year again... Big Brother...

2009-06-10T05:54:00.000-07:00

Reality TV - well you're either a lover or a hater, and I'm a lover :) I'm fascinated with people and I'm interested how human beings interact and adapt to certain situations out of their comfort zone.

When you think of it humans are the most advanced and populated mammal in the world so we should all have a keen interest in the human race and you can really learn from peoples personalities. The fame hungry types that will 'do anything for money' I find interesting. Those of you haters will be thinking 'what a load of codswollop!' :))))

I think to enjoy these sorts of programmes you really need to be a 'people person' and have a certain amount of interest in psychology, which I do.

Here are my top reality programmes in no particular order ...

Wife Swap - whoever thought of this is a genius. They pair the couples perfectly!

Super Nanny - I love watching the children change and learn about respect. Jo is amazing.

The Apprentice - cut throat business and back stabbing everyone treading over whoever they need to to stay in the game. Fascinating!

Big Brother - every year I lose a little bit of interest as the producers try harder and harder to mess people up. Halfwit and Dogface... whatever next?! But I still watch it :) It's like a little experiment with caged mice!

Britain/America's got Talent - aside from all the rubbish (which always makes for good TV :) there are some very talented people on these shows, and of course there's sexy Simon! :)

Come Dine With me - cooking for a bunch of strangers, who could have known such a programme would be so enthralling?!

I'm a celebrity Get me out of Here - I respect anyone who goes on this programme, because I really couldn't eat the things they eat and do the things they do for any amount of money!

Hells Kitchen - Marco so mysterious when he tries to be all cryptic but very funny :)

Ramsey's Kitchen Nightmares - Ramsey is a joy to watch for me :) He's got sexier as he's gotten older. I admire all the celebrities that tell it like it is, as I am pretty much that sort of person myself.

You are What you eat - very educational and very much needed with the rise in obesity. People are too lazy nowadays!

10 years younger - the way this programme changes peoples lives is just fantastic!

PS before any of you think me too much of a saddo let me add - I am not so obsessed with these programmes that I stay in especially to watch them or record them if I miss them, but if I'm in and they're on, I'm watching :)

Nottingham escort - Dreams part 3

2009-06-01T23:30:00.000-07:00

Simon Cowell, diamonds and rubies... now what the hell does that mean? Lol. He was supposed to be giving my friend a ring and she was assuming it would be diamonds but he gave her one with rubies and then took it back and gave her just a silver band, saying both the diamond rings and the ruby one was for someone else! OMG how random is that????

I did the accidentally on purpose fall on him so I could brush his leg! What a saddo :)))) And me and some other friends were laughing at my friend who thought she was getting a diamond ring whilst I was watching him fish this silver band out of a choice of rings.

I ended up with a silver ring with a diamond, but it just appeared on my finger and not from Simon Cowell boo hoo! :)

Funnily enough I didn't find any meaning for finding Simon Cowell pop up in my dream (too much Britain's got talent lol :) but I did find ....

Diamonds
To see diamonds in your dream, signifies the wholeness of the Self. You may be finding clarity in matters that have been clouding you. Alternatively, it represents vanity, conceit, and your unchanging or unyielding nature. You may be distancing yourself from others.

To receive diamond jewelry in your dream, signifies love. If you lose the diamond jewelry, then it indicates a lost in money or difficulty in your love relationship.

Ruby
To see a ruby in your dream, symbolizes passion, vitality and sexual desire. Be cautious in affairs of the heart as they may be fleeting.

Silver
To see silver in your dream, symbolizes the moon, intuition and the feminine aspects of yourself. It signifies tranquility and understated confidence.

Silver
Silver represents justice and purity. It is symbolic of some protective energy.

Things I love about the summer...

2009-05-31T01:12:00.000-07:00

- short skirts, summer dresses, skimpy tops and shorts :)
- Pimm and lemonade, lots of chilled rose and white wine
- BBQ's ... who doesn't love a good BBQ eh? :)
- country pubs and beer gardens ... no country can beat the Uk when we have sunshine for these!
- lazy days chilling in parks and countryside walks
- long days and balmy summer nights
- early mornings - I love getting up at the crack of dawn! The early bird catches the worm :-)
- picnics in the countryside ... what better way to spend a summers avo!
- weddings! People either love them or hate them. I'm a lover :) Only none of my friends are getting married this year. Boo hoooo
- ice creams and lolly pops :) - a good 'ole fashioned Mr Softy 99 with rasberry sauce... making me hungry mmmmm

Time to go…

2009-05-31T01:01:00.000-07:00

I’ve been escorting now for 9 years and I’ve had some amazing experiences and met some wonderful and interesting people.

I’ll be retiring in a few weeks time to pursue other projects. I have some availability before then so those that would like to meet for one last fling to say good bye and go out with a bang - please contact me to arrange a date.

Lots of love, Bea XXXX
PS, I will be keeping my blog going. I'm addicted now lol :)

Nottingham Escort - Oooo arrrrr; Farm Shop produce...

2009-05-21T22:35:00.000-07:00

I have been meaning for ages to start shopping at a farm shop rather than just the supermarket (which I go to like most people for convenience) and when I went to my friends house the other evening for tea I found she had this delicious asparagus that she'd bought in the farm shop, the exact one I had written down the details last week to visit, so the very next day I went to have a nosey at what they had.

They had all the local cheeses and some continental. I especially love the Colsten Basset stilton, and I had to get myself some of that along with some goats cheese, Parmesan and some Somerset brie (obviously not local :). Yes I love cheese can you tell??? hehe.

From the meat counter I bought tonnes of sausages (I'm off to a barbi Sunday) after tasting some delish ones at my friends house. They had them with black pudding, chilli, garlic all sorts of combinations. Also I got a lovely chunk of fillet steak, some chicken, thick cut bacon and ham - all locally produced.

I stocked up on veg and farm eggs. I don't care how free range they are in the supermarket they never taste as good as fresh eggs. My mum and dad have chickens and a boiled egg with soldiers with their eggs is unbeatable with supermarket eggs.

I'll be making regular trips to the farm shop now. They even have a bakery. Yes it costs more but I think it's definitely worth it!

OOO arrrr anyway I must be getting on. Toodle pip for now XXXXXX

Nottingham Escort - Dreams part 2

2009-05-21T22:28:00.000-07:00

I'm still having crazy dreams... too much cheese me thinks :) I had a small dog pawing up my leg last night. I know animals are very symbolic so I looked it up. I'm bearing my soul for you guys telling you about my dreams Lol :) XXXX

Dog...
To see a dog in your dream, symbolizes intuition, loyalty, generosity, protection, and fidelity. The dream suggests that your strong values and good intentions will enable you to go forward in the world and bring you success.

Nottingham Escort - Dreams

2009-05-14T23:07:00.000-07:00

Since I've been having problems sleeping I've been having some very strange, vivid, weird and random dreams. I'm really interested in the sub-conscience mind. I always look for significant things in them that I can look up the meaning of.

The night before last I dreamt I was riding a bike down a really steep hill and up the other side. Last night I dreamt I was on a date with one of my regulars and I left him for an hour or so whilst I went to do something with some song lyrics that I had in possession that had been written. I'm not sure if they were for me. I was going to have a go at singing and recording. Then I bumped into Steph from Hollyoaks (random or what?!) and I said I'd got these lyrics and I knew she wanted to sing them but I wanted to have a go myself. I seemed to know where I was going and asked her if she wanted to come another day. I took her number and said I'd call her. Then I started painting my nails pink!!!??? Lol :) I tried to rush back as I was conscious of my date waiting and I didn't have my phone with me, but I couldn't walk or rush something kept pulling me backwards so I couldn't get anywhere. I eventually found myself on a sky rise building and having to fly back. I woke up before I made it.

Here's a few of the things I found for possible meanings...

Bike
To dream that you are riding a bicycle signifies your desires to attain a balance in your life. You need to balance work and pleasure in order to succeed in your current undertakings. If you have difficulties riding the bicycle, then it suggests that you are experiencing anxieties about making it on your own.

Flying
One of the ways of interpreting flying dreams is that these dreams symbolize your strong mind and will. You feel undefeatable and nobody can tell you what you cannot do and accomplish. Undoubtedly these dreams leave you a great sense of freedom.

Colours - pink
Pink represents love, joy, sweetness, happiness, affection, kindness. Being in love or healing through love is also implied with this color.

Nottingham Escort - Bea the gym buff!

2009-05-14T07:22:00.000-07:00

I always thought I hated the gym and I tried it once a few years ago and was bored stiff. When people used to say it was addictive I thought they were talking rubbish. So I gave up and started fun things like badminton, salsa dancing and Aikido.

Recently I decided to try it again, as there's a gym that's opened near my dojo, and I started going as a little warm up before Aikido just to do a bit of cardio to get the blood pumping. Now I can't get enough of it and I understand why it's addictive. I'm doing weights as well now and I'm spending at least an hour there before I go to Aikido. I am loving it! With all the house stress (it is all coming together the end is nearly nigh, yey :) I really look forward to it.

Today I did an hour at the gym and then an hour of Aikido doing jiyu-waza (which is constant throwing and falling) so a very full on session. It was great fun and it's the only time I haven't had to stop mid session to use my inhaler! So my fitness levels must be getting better, so I am getting addicted, and I need to be - I polished off four courses last night on my dinner date! :-/

Nottingham Escort - House stress!

2009-05-12T09:55:00.000-07:00

I know house buying is stressful for anyone - well I bought my first house the other month to let out. I thought all it needed was damp proofing and since then I've found that I needed painting, the gas and electric meters had been tampered with, the boiler wasn't working and someone had used a shower hose to connect it inside, on the main fuse board who ever had it previously had bypassed the main trip switch so all the switches were switched on but the trip switch was showing no power potentially causing a hazardous situation. I may need new windows as the woods rotting and the roof needs tiling done. The list goes on and on.

I'd love to become a bit of a property investor, but the way things are going I think I'll have had my fill of stress for a while :)

The positive thing is I'm learning from my mistakes and I know what to look out for next time!

Toodle pip for now XXXX

Nottingham Escort - weekend in London

2009-05-12T09:50:00.000-07:00

Now I'm a country gal but I do love visiting the city and I spent a wonderful couple of days with one of my regular gents JB in London the other week. We saw Tina Turner in concert - she was fabulous! How does she have so much energy at 69?! I saw her on her 60th birthday in Sheffield and she was just as good then. What a woman!

The next day we had a wonderfully relaxing long lunch at Ramseys Boxwood, before going to see Jersey Boys in the evening. I love all my 60's music too so thoroughly enjoyed all the Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons songs. By the end of it we were all standing and having a bop around :)

Top weekend... thanks JB XXXXX

Nottingham Escort - Beas radio interview!

2009-04-28T08:47:00.000-07:00

Last week I did my first radio interview, and Frances Finn came round to ask me questions about my escorting for her morning show. It was great to get the opportunity to try and educate people, as there are so many people that just try and pigeon hole all escorts as prostitutes and assuming we all offer the same experience/services.

I got the impression she assumed I must be devoid of human emotions and the ability to have a successful meaningful relationship when she tried to compare my having sex during my work dates to her having sex with her husband! That's like comparing one night stands to having sex with a partner/husband! The two aren't comparable in any way shape or form, they are poles apart for obvious reasons. Someone who escorts or has regular one night stands can still have a meaningful, sexual, longterm relationship with the right person unless perhaps they have 'issues' in general with men and relationships. I have neither, I'm just waiting for my Mr Right :)

Anyhoo I found it quite interesting. I am not shallow and love getting to know the people I spend time with on my dates. I am genuinely interested in them so as well as being a good talker, I'm also a good listener. Sex on a date is fun when it's someone new to explore and also when it's a regular who I've built up a relationship of sorts with because we learn what makes each other tick.

The GFE (girlfriend experience) and the companionship side of escorting was something I wanted to speak about and try to educate people about.

It's going to be broadcast tomorrow morning, that's Wednesday the 29th April, but you can listen back on the website.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/nottingham/local_radio

Nottingham Escort - Link help?

2009-04-22T11:36:00.001-07:00

Can anyone help me out? I can't seem to post links to websites on here. I've tried playing around with various options, but it doesn't work. I'm the most un-technical bird ever! But I do have other skills! haha ;-)

Nottingham escort - Race for Life

2009-04-22T11:14:00.000-07:00

I like to do my bit for chaaaaarity, and since my Grandma (god bless her) passed away from cancer and my dad's battled with it too, it's a charity I like to support and I know it affects most families down the line at some point. So this year I will be racing for Life. I'm not a big runner/racer so I tend to go for the 'walk and talk' option :) Please email me if you'd like to sponsor me... www.raceforlife.org

Escort blog - My lunch date

2009-04-20T08:32:00.000-07:00

The other week I spent a wonderful few hours dining at one of my local restaurants with a lovely gent that I've had a few platonic dates with now. We always have a fun afternoon and I've been introducing him to some of my favourite local restaurants. Imagine my surprise when I see that not only has he started his own blog, after saying how much he enjoyed reading mine, he's mentioned our lunch date!

Posh Nosh, Posh Dosh. (deepen Rambling) 16th April

http://www.deepnrambling.blogspot.com//

Link finally working now... sorry!

Have a peek peeps :)

Escort blog - Face book!

2009-04-19T03:55:00.000-07:00

Goddamn Face book!

I succumbed to Face Book after a lot of friends nagging me. It had always freaked me out for people to know what I am doing, who I am mixing with, where I go on my nights out and putting on photos of me but after assurances of a certain amount of privacy I let a friend talk me into it.

I never post on my wall, and never read peoples random comments, I guess some people have too much time on their hands. I find it bizarre that people write about absolutely everything they've been doing 'Jane's got the hangover from hell' 'Lisa has run out of milk and sent the hubby out on a grocery shop' etc... who cares?

I've tollerated it for a while now, but it freaks me out that people can put photos on me without my consent! Whether I am tagged on them or not is irrelevant, it's an invasion of my privacy, but I suppose that's what face book is all about :( But I have no control over what photos are put on of me, and that's what I don't like. Whether I am on face book or not those photos will still be on there on my friends pages and visible to all their 200 friends!

I was an ugly duckling at school who got bullied for how I looked and I have people putting horrible old school photos on of me (not just of me there's others in them) I know it's not malicious but I don't want to be reminded of those days :(

I found this and thought it was rather funny :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFKHaFJzUb4&feature=PlayList&p=E94555E44F6A81F9&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=37

GFE Bea Escort Blog - Drinking bark and leaves

2009-04-18T02:59:00.000-07:00

Yes it tastes as gross as it sounds!!!

Why would I - I hear you ask?! :)

Friday I went to see a Chinese doctor because of trouble sleeping. I've been a zombie for the past few days.... not good.

After speaking with a friend and him swearing by it I decided I'd try some alternative medicine.

After an hour of acupuncture I was given a bag of 7 bags of leaves and twigs which I was told was 'tea' - bloody expensive tea at £35!!!

I felt like a witch 'hubble bubble toil and trouble' :) as I brewed up and strained and brewed again my pile of leaves etc... it stank out my whole flat and it really is gross. I've yet to see if it works, but I feel better today than I have the past few days. I have to have this potion morning and night.

Anybody ever tried it? Or anything similar? And what do people think about these alternative medicines?

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - Easter bunny no show

2009-04-15T00:53:00.000-07:00

I had a few people wishing me happy Easter this weekend (and my mum even sends easter cards - bless :). Not being a religious person I forget its an important religious event. Anyhow I still like chocolate eggs, and the easter bunny forgot me this year. Maybe its my punishment for my lack of faith :-/ boooo hoooo

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - More concerts...

2009-04-14T06:16:00.000-07:00

3 posts in one day!!! You lucky people ;-) Now I really am rambling hehe :)

I do have a very diverse music taste, and I'm sure some of my friends think I'm a bit weird! Lol

Just to give you an example - last week I took my bro to see Kenny Rodgers for his 30th birthday presse. We must have bought the average age down about 20 years! Bless Kenny he must be about 70 now! He hobbled on stage and he was so funny, cracking jokes. He did his classics, Gambler, Lady and of course Islands in the Stream (unfortunately without our dear Dolly) amongst many others. It was great fun. At the end he said he wasn't going to go off and come back on as he didn't want to waste any energy!!! hehe. He said "whats the point you all know that when someone does that they are going to come back on"! So he did about an hour and then went to his beddy bys probably :)

Then this Saturday I was bouncing to some loud dirty bass at the arena for an amazing Prodigy and Dizzee Rascal concert. Wow now that was a very different atmosphere to last week. It was soooo loud my friend and I had to put tissue in our ears (don't tell anyone... we're not too old, honestly :-)! The bass went right through our bodies, absolutely amazing. Dizzee Rascal what a warm up for a Prodigy concert! There was a sea of heads constantly bobbing throughout the whole concert. Prodigy as crazy as ever jumped about in the audience stage dived and did lots of their old stuff "come with me to the dance floor, you and me coz that's what it's for" I loved that classic from my old raving days! Then we had the Firestarter and all their other mad tracks.

You just can't beat live concerts! I'm off with my regular J to see Tina at the O2 next month, and she does one hell of a concert, puts all these young ones to shame. Even she plays for an hour or so longer than Kenny did and they're about the same age!

GFE Bea Nottingham escort blog - Look alikes!

2009-04-14T06:02:00.000-07:00

If one more person tells me I look like Lady fricking Gaga! .... When the first person told me I hadn't even seen who she was. About ten people have told me so far in the past few weeks. When I looked her up on the internet I was horrified!

She has the most hideous dress sense, kinda like my transvestite style that I used to sport many, many years ago!!! I call it my 'transvestite style' because I did look like a man in drag with my OTT look - over made up face, false eyelashes, false nails, and tiny hot-pants and all my flesh hanging out. I like to think I've got a bit more class nowadays and I understand that less is more. It's either boobs or legs for me!

I trade marked the hairstyle about 14 years ago :)) I've only had a few minor blips where I've experimented and it's gone horribly wrong, hence why I keep the same safe hairstyle that I know suits me.

Anybody been told they look like someone famous???

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - More from Vegas!

2009-04-14T00:30:00.000-07:00

Grand canyon helicopter ride! Here I am on our fuel stop on the way back from the canyon.

Le Reve - see how our outfits match the show. It was all planned of course ;-)

Thunderbirds are go!!!!

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - Back from Vegas baby yea!

2009-04-08T23:15:00.000-07:00

What a place! I've just got back from a 4 night trip there with my gorgeous friend Amber. We had an absolute ball!

Anyone who thinks that Vegas is just for gambling is just so far off the mark! There is so much to do there.

My first impressions were that it wasn't as tacky as I was expecting. I was expecting major cheese and tack and of course there is some, but there's a whole lot more.

Our hotel - the Venetian was fabulous. I'd heard people talk about the gondolas so I really was expecting it to be very tacky, but seriously it's not. And I knew the hotels would be supersize but I didn't quite realise just how big they would be. To give you an idea our hotel had 7000 suites, 3 nightclubs, 4 pools, casino, 2 theatres, a St Marcs Square with fricking gondolas going in and outside the building, spa, conference centre and about 30 shops and 30 restaurants/bars!!!!! Humongous!

The highlights were our champagne helicopter ride in the Grand canyon.... which is really a must for any one visiting. We came back down the strip during sunset. As the Americans would say... it was awesome ;-)

Le Reve... wow wa woo wa. What a show. The best I've ever seen (and I've seen a few) The best way to describe it would be Cirque De Soleil in water... check it out...
http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45SW5LdYGZ0

All the hotels have so much to see in them, and all have amazing flower displays. The fountains at the Bellagio were fabulous, especially with Elvis belting out 'Viva Las Vegas' in the back ground :)))

We gambled on the last night... the last of the big spenders - we both played $20 each on the cheapo tables of black jack for a couple of hours. We both got lots of pontoons and increasingly more tipsy with the free drinks! In fact by the end of it we had about $80... it's a bit of a blur. I remember thinking that I'd like to take some chips back as a souvinir and shoved a load in my bag, and we left the rest on the table. Doh! I'd picked up over $30 of chips! Lol :)

We were very restrained and didn't go shopping until the last day when we spent about 2 hours in Juicy Couture. It's a dangerous place for me as I adore their costume jewellery and came away considerably lighter in the pocket!

I hope to get the chance to go back very soon... but for now I'm back in little old Nottingham XXXX

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - Off on my jollies

2009-03-25T00:43:00.000-07:00

I'm off for some sunshine! Please bear with me if you're trying to reach me. I won't be picking up my voicemails or replying to my emails until my return next week 1st/2nd April.

Right I'm off to pack. Firstly a girls gotta have at the very least 5 pairs of shoes for a 4 night trip... or is that just me? ;-) Then there's beach wear, day wear and evening wear... one of each for every day, so that's 12 outfits, with a couple spare for a bit of choice, then there's a jumper and jacket ... just in case it's cooler... and then there's not forgetting the million and one creams and a sack of make up. I always mean to travel light, but as you can see it never happens! Lol.

If you're lucky I might just treat you all to some holiday snaps when I get back ;-)

Toodle pip! Bea XXXX

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - Spring is coming!

2009-03-20T07:56:00.000-07:00

I love it that the nights are drawing out and the days are getting longer. After a lovely early night I was up at the crack of dawn this morning 6.30 bright eyed and bushy tailed. You know what they say? The early bird catches the worm ;-) It makes the day last so much longer! I love it that we can start ditching those winter woolies. Let's face it it's not very sexy to be covered top to toe in warm clothing is it? ;-) Roll on the summer I say I can't wait to get out my legs out in mini skirts and shorts. Have a great weekend everyone! XXXXX

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - New photos now online

2009-03-09T09:12:00.000-07:00

Ahoy there! I am soooo pleased with my new photos :) I always say this but I think it's my best shoot yet! I've got fun, flirty, girlie, mean and moody, teasing, glamour, fashion style. All sorts. Hopefully there's something to tickle your fancy. ooo er ;-) XXXX Anybody any particular favourites?

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - Grandad pole dancing!

2009-03-04T00:25:00.001-08:00

Yes I know it's not a sexy thought, but it was hilarious! My Grandparents came over yesterday. My mum had picked them up from their Dorset farm on Saturday and they came over for a late lunch yesterday. They're both in their 80's, and were fascinated by my pole. After I did a little demo my Grandad insisted on trying to climb up it, and I did get one photo of him clutching it. Needless to say he didn't quite get both feet off the ground! But what a funny image :) Bless them! "Where did it start this pole dancing?" My Granny asked. She's a bit of a prude, so uncomfortably I replied "Gentlemens clubs" - I thought that sounded less seedy than Lap Dancing clubs! Lol :)

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - New photos

2009-03-02T12:00:00.000-08:00

It’s great that the end to my week was more successful than the beginning!

I cannot wait until I see my photos! I’ve just spent a fabulous few days with my beautician friend who’s in her early sixties. She came with me on my photo shoot.

The shot went great on Friday and we were lucky that the one day we needed a clear sky (even though it was freezing cold!) we had it.

S my friend touched up my hair and make up, and we did a series of outdoor shots in a small marina. My naval officer’s hat looked fab with my little shorts, tight navy t-shirt, red lippy and my sky high Giambattista Valli’s (you girls will know ;-)

After a full on day shooting we were invited by our hosts to their local lap dancing club. S had never been to one. She was mesmerised and loved it! Their wealthy friend was kindly buying us all copious bottles champagne. We moved onto Linekars, where we met Wayne Linekar, who again is good friends with the couple, and there we we had more drinks and a boogie. We called it a night at 5.

Saturday we were invited to a birthday party. Where there were numerous bottles of 5 litre champagne! We then moved on to a private area in a club where there were various 5 litre bottles of Grey Goose (one of my favourite vodkas!) and we called it a night at 7am after a fun night of dancing and mingling. Everyone was so friendly.

The weather wasn’t good, and on Saturday it rained all day, so we didn’t mind concentrating on the partying this time! S said she’d never stayed up until 7am, and I certainly don’t anymore (my raving days are well over! I think I’ve had a late night if I’m clubbing at stay out until 2, but most of the time at home I’m in bed at 10!) and that she’d had the best 4 days of her life!

It was great fun but I’m still recovering! Lol

That's all for now folks :)

GFE Bea Nottingham escort blog - walking disaster!

2009-02-24T02:45:00.000-08:00

We all have the odd off day but mine has lasted for days. Before I get the barrage of dumb blonde jokes ;-) let me say that I am not known for being ditsy in fact quite the opposite, however I haven't been well at all this weekend and I got progressively worse since I had to leave my date Friday night in the middle of a beautiful Michelin meal. Sacre bleu! A travesty!

My weekend got progressively worse from that initial disaster, even though I was feeling a little better when I got up Saturday I managed to spill Night Nurse on all my bedding, my throw, duvet, duvet cover and the cover to my water bed, so I had to take it all the the dry cleaners Saturday morning, in the process I lost my mobile phone and went to Cambridge without it.

Things come in three's ... right? So after those 3 disasters I was sure I'd have had my quota for a long time, but it seems not....

Thankfully I took my phone numbers with me, and on the way back I found my phone where I thought my keys were (in the zip compartment of my wash bag!!!???) but couldn't find my keys (house and car) and teary eyed made a number of calls at Nottingham train station to try and find a neighbour in. None were! I didn't fancy calling the bell of any random flats in the distressed state I was in. I just wanted to get in to bed as I was ill but your own bed doesn't quite have the same appeal when you're in a sleeping bag!

Fortunately I found a friend in went to his house. I called to reactivate my phone whilst he kindly called a locksmith, and he waited with me until I found a neighbour that could let us and the locksmith in. One and a half hours later and £225 I had access to my flat and new keys.

My neighbour had had one of my spare keys for years and I took it back from her the other week when I had joiners in, and on my list of 'things to do' was to drop my spare key back to her!

My friend took me out to get a Macdonalds as I had no food in (I nearly forgot my fob for the apartments. I had a spare in my flat so I almost got locked out again!) and had I been well enough I had planned to go out for lunch. The Macdonalds Happy Meal box wasn't secured properly and most of my chips ended up on the pavement!

Then later that evening I misplaced the fob, my brain was just not working at all, and I had to trouble my neighbours again to borrow one.

I went to bed feeling really unwell, but had to go to the solicitors Monday so I couldn't lie in. With no spare car keys I spent over £50 on taxis to and from the solicitors and whist the cab waited for me to collect my bedding and get some food in. I felt absolutely horrendous! I simply don't have time to be ill this week, I've so much to organize before I go away Thursday on my photo shoot. It's sods law isn't it!

I'm feeling a little better today thankfully :)

My phone has a delay on being cancelled and I'm waiting for it to be properly reactivated, so please bear with me if you're trying to reach me. At the moment I can't call out but my answer machine is on.

My keys have arrived this morning from Cambridge so thank goodness I didn't have to pay another £200 for someone to break into my car! Now that really has booted me up the arse to get a spare car key cut and a few more house keys!

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - new photos

2009-02-18T09:13:00.000-08:00

I'm off next week for some sunshine and new photos! I've just got to decide what to wear. I've ordered a few bits of lingerie and swim-wear from Figleaves, I just need to find some nice dresses :)

GFE Bea Nottingham escort blog - belated post for a belated Christmas party!

2009-02-18T08:33:00.000-08:00

I'm still getting up to date with my blog, sorry peeps.

Last month Amber and I went to the Northern Angels Christmas party. We started off in one of our fave restaurants in Manchester - San Carlos. There were about 6 of us including the gorgeous Anna Aroma. Well I have never had so much attention from the waiters. We were unintentionally hogging all of them. They were constantly fussing around our table. I wonder if it had anything to do with it being full of glamorous ladies? ;-) hehe. Emma had barely finished her drink and was about to put it down when it was whipped from her hand and topped up! :) Yes we caused quite a stir!

The party was fun and we all we had a couple of hours of dancing and mingling. They did play some of my fave tunes including a bit of Dolly Parton. It was great to meet some of the newer girls and see some familiar faces.

We ended up in Panacea with a few of the girls. It was a fun night all round.

I hope you like the photo of Amber and me in Panacea ;-)

GFE Bea Nottingham escort blog - Valentines

2009-02-16T01:28:00.000-08:00

A belated happy Valentines day! Lets spread the lurve ;-) XXXX

I'm an old romantic at heart. I got 2 cards this year, one from my ex (we send one to each other every year so that we both at least get one card each! :) and one from my regular J # 2, along with a bottle of my favourite perfume and a CD from our last concert Sharleen Spiteri. Thanks so much! I did keep my apartment buzzer on all day in case someone sent me flowers, but it wasn't to be this year! Boo hoo

Toodle pip for now XXXX

GFE Bea, Nottingham escort - Friday the 13th

2009-02-13T08:32:00.000-08:00

Anybody superstitious this Friday the 13th?

I've just got a County Court Judgment! Lol. It was expected ... mmmm just need to gather my evidence and formulate my defense. Watch this space ....

GFE Nottingham escort blog - Flaky girls

2009-02-13T08:31:00.001-08:00

Reet I’m going to have a moan! Why are so many people inconsiderate and unreliable?

When I make plans I stick to them, unless of course something happens that’s unavoidable - but even then if I have put someone else out I’m mortified, apologetic, and want to minimise their inconvenience. I certainly would never expect someone to be out of pocket financially because of me. It seems today a lot of people are selfish and inconsiderate, and I find it extremely frustrating.

In this biz I have just one reliable, close friend, and that’s my dear Amber, many other girls are just flaky.

Amber and I once arranged a girl’s night at mine whilst we were all having dinner before going to a Christmas party. All the girls said they were coming, and in the end it turned out just Amber and me. Not that I’m complaining, it was fun, and we always have a laugh together, but lots of people I find make arrangements and then let you down.

It seems that the reliable, thoughtful people are in the minority!

I’m a firm believer in treating people with the same care and respect you would like for yourself.

Rant over! :)

Bea GFE Nottingham escort blog; Live concerts!

2009-02-13T07:59:00.000-08:00

How time flies! I haven’t written on my blog for ages, so I’ll post a few things to get up to date. Firstly….

I was fortunate on Monday to be taken by one of my dear regular gents to see Sharleen Spiteri at Nottingham Concert Hall. Wow what a fabulous singer! She not only has a great voice she's also an amazing song writer too, and she plays both the key board and guitar.

http://www.sharleenspiteri.co.uk/

This is what I love about my job I get some fantastic opportunities! J # 2 and I have been to various concerts, and he's introduced me to some amazing singers and bands that I'd have never thought to see; The Eagles, Elton John, Paul Carrack, and we've seen Texas a number of times.

Sharleen has a very outgoing, bubbly personality with a great sense of humour, so a concert with her is always fun and lively! We had perfect seats just 6 rows from the front and being in the Concert Hall the venue was nice and intimate. Within minutes of her being on stage she had everyone up out of their seats dancing, where we all pretty much stayed for the duration of the concert.

Thanks J # 2 for another memorable evening. I'm looking forward to Tina Turner next month who's one of my all time favourite singers - an absolute legend!

GFE Bea Nottingham Escort Blog - Slumdog Millionaire

2009-01-16T00:32:00.000-08:00

I wouldn't say I'm a massive film buff but WOW! Slumdog Millionaire is one of the best films I've seen in a long time. I think it's already won lots of awards and it's up for more.

People, this is one for the cinema if you're going to see it. Not for special affects but for the fantastic directing. The scenes and how it's filmed is spot on. I've never been to India but you really get a feel for life there and the slums. Especially the scenes as kids run around the labyrinth of street markets. All the acting is faultless. There's some extremely funny bits but also some shocking scenes of violence which I imagine is the harsh reality of the poverty in Indian culture.

For those who don't know about it; it's a teenage lad who enters the Indian version of 'Who wants to be a Millionaire' to win the heart of and provide for his childhood sweetheart who's living with a gangster. Between the 2 shows he's being tortured by the Indian police because he's getting the questions right and they think he's a cheat. Then it shows you his life and how every question he answered is directly linked to a very poignant part of his life from his early childhood upwards.

http://www.rollingstone.com/reviews/movie/20192670/review/24013911/slumdog_millionaire

http://movies.yahoo.com/movie/1809956055/video

GFE Nottingham Escort Bea - School reunion

2009-01-08T12:20:00.000-08:00

I went to my first school reunion last week. I was petrified to go. Unfortunately I haven't kept in touch with anyone I went to school with. I have tried previously but people haven't seemed to want to make an effort and keep in touch, so I haven't bothered since. Until I got a random text from one girl mentioning a New Year gathering for all the people in my year.

I wanted to go but was terrified to go on my own. How silly is that? I work as an escort so I should be confident, independent woman! But I really didn't want to go on my own so I arranged to swing by Eileen's house (who text me) so I could arrive with her.

Deliberating about what to wear, I figured as we were meeting at a bar and it was a Friday night that people would be quite dressed up, so I decided on a dress which looked like a pencil skirt/chiffon blouse.

I was dreading the, 'so what are you doing now?' question. I also suspected I would be one of the only ones without a partner/husband/kids. My friend Nat text me to say 'just say you're independent successful business woman' ... I suppose I am :)

Unfortunately I had confided when I was in touch with one friend a few years ago what I did for a living, and I had a horrible feeling she'd have filled everyone in! I just hoped she hadn't shown everyone my website. I am honest about what I do but I feel very uncomfortable when friends want to see my website so I don't mention it.

It transpired we weren't meeting in town as I'd thought but in a pub on the out skirts of town. It was brightly lit all the way through and I felt extremely over dressed and uncomfortable. I was worried I wouldn't recognize people, but as it turned out there was only one guy who I didn't quite recognize. Two guys were there and there ended up being 10 women. It was very surreal considering that we were all girls the last we were all together.

One girl Karen was in so much shock she couldn't even hardly speak! She was ok after a few drinks :)

I got on really well with everyone and it was interesting to see peoples photos of their kids and hear all about what they have been up to.

There was about 6 of us that lasted the night and fortunately we did go to a club in town in the end, so I didn't feel over dressed.

It seems quite a few people had been told what I was doing, and some were intrigued and keen to ask questions, which I don't mind. I like to educate people about this profession, because I think most people think escort and think Belle De Jour! I like to show them how there's more to it than they think.

Anyhow I did have a great night and I met a few old friends that I definitely want to keep in touch with!

That's all for now folks... XXX

Bea Nottingham escort blog - ho ho merry Christmas :)

2008-12-24T07:13:00.000-08:00

I just want to wish all my readers and friends a very merry Christmas and happy New Year!

People either love or hate Christmas... I am a lover! :)

My mum makes such an effort - bless her. She makes all her own food including the Christmas cake, mince pies, pud, chestnut stuffing, lots of desserts, even the candle decorations she picks fresh holly and ivy and makes them.

We always have a very traditional Christmas. We all have to stir the Christmas pud and make a wish before she cooks it. As we're all dotted about the country it's difficult for her to get everyone to stir it before Christmas. Last year the time we were all going to be together was for lunch at a local pub for my birthday in October, so at the end of our pub meal (there was about 10 of us) in the car park my mum opens the boot, and brings out a box, on which she stands the pud in a mixing bowl, and we all had to stir it and make a wish, much to the amusement of all the passers by! :)))

Santa still comes to our house, even though all 4 of us are grown up now! We get silly little fun things in our stockings along with a satsuma and nuts. It always gives us all a good giggle Christmas morning.

Then we have champagne and smoked salmon and scrambled eggs. Lunch is usually rather late, 2-3 pm, and after we've eaten we all sit together with coffees and/Baileys and mince pies and Christmas cake and we unwrap presents and admire our own and each others gifts.

After an hour or so its turkey sandwich time! Then it's endless games of trivial pursuit, charades, boggle and all sorts of games :) Charades is my favourite! My mum won the prize for the funniest last year - 'Midsummer Murders', where she went round us all pretending to strangle us, making strange noises and then collapsing and dying herself! She does a bit of acting so she is always very dramatic :)

So for me I love Christmas. People say that it's the kids that make Christmas... not in our house! Well maybe its because we all act like big kids that makes it so much fun!

Please bear with me if you try and contact me over this next week. I am not around today/tomorrow or NYE/day, and I have various things planned with friends and family in between.

Enjoy the festive season and all the best for 2009!

Toodle pip, Bea XXXXX

Bea Nottingham Escort - a wee trip to bonny Scotland!

2008-12-23T04:05:00.000-08:00

I have just come back from a wonderful few days in Loch Lomond. My date and I stayed at the fabulous hotel Cameron House. Guys if ever you want to treat a lady this place is highly recommended!

http://www.devere-hotels.com/our-hotels/cameron-house/the-hotel

Our room had views over the Loch that were simply breathtaking! The hotel itself although vast has a certain intimacy about it. The decor is dark wood giving it that rustic oldy worldy look, but with modern touches. There's 4 fantastic restaurants. Two of which are at the hotel. The Grill, and the Michelin starred Martin Wishart restaurant. There's also 2 bars on the premises - the Great Scots Bar and the Whisky Bar.

We had a delicious meal at the Grill on our first night and after pre dinner drinks in the Scots Bar, and on our second night we ate an exquisite food from the 'taster menu' in the Martin Wishart restaurant with drinks after in the Whisky bar along with a few games of the card game shit head (one of my favourite card games :)

During the day we went quad biking. The weather was perfect for this as there had been so much rain! It was so much fun. Although we were top to toe in water proofs I still managed to get my face splattered with lots of mud! I love going really fast on quad bikes but also doing the challenging circuits through the woods.

Then we had a quick change and wash before boarding the boat for a champagne cruise down the Loch. The views are stunning and we were so lucky with the weather. The one day we wanted it to be clear of rain, it was :)

I spent the next day in the spa at Carrick, with it's outdoor hot tub and sauna over looking the fantastic views!

A perfect end to a perfect date :) Thanks J for a fun, and both action packed and relaxing couple of days! XXX

Bea Nottingham escort blog - Christmas party!

2008-12-15T06:54:00.000-08:00

Here's me with a giggly, sexy Amber ogling my boobies and the gorgeous Miss Dolly! :)

I was in London this weekend for the Captain 69 Christmas party! Kindly organized by BdN... many thanks XXX
http://www.captain69.co.uk

There was a bunch of male members and escorts from both this site and the new up and coming Last Page site...

http://www.lastpage.com

Amber helped me decide on my party outfit of a black basque and black pencil skirt. I have to say all us ladies looked pretty damn hot!

It was great to see some familiar faces and to also put faces to various people I'd chatted to online in forums that I'd not met before. It's a little unnerving at first at these sorts of parties because everyone knows who us ladies are but we don't know which face belongs to which pseudonym for the guys, but once people introduced themselves the evening was relaxed and fun.

Boy what fun we had! As usual with parties there were quite a lot of no shows but the northern birds were out in force. If I can figure out how to get this photo off my phone I'll post it on here! There was my dear fellow northern friends Amber and Dolly Mopp, and I met a lovely lady I hadn't met before Sascha another northerner who is based now in London.

We had a meal and lots of champagne at a secret London venue. I'm sure most people imagine that these are sleazy parties, but it was just a bunch of guys and ladies having a good old knees up with lots of food and drinks and some party games! We finished up at the Carlton Towers for a nightcap ... another champagne cocktail :-)

Amber and I called it a night about 2, and staggered back to our hotel for our beauty sleep.

Toodle pip, Bea XXXX

Bea Nottingham Escort blog - getting in touch, and vetting people

2008-12-15T06:08:00.000-08:00

I have to say I'm very fussy with whom I see and speak to. I think the day, time and number of times a person calls, and their message tells me a lot about some ones character. In this business we ladies have to rely a lot on our instincts :)

My phone I always let go to answer machine because I like to hear a person’s voice before I call them back. I don't call everyone back.

Some of the reasons I don’t call people back are…
-I can’t understand the message and/or they say the number too fast
-I delete the message by mistake... ooops it does happen
-I'm only given a certain times to call and it’s not convenient for me to call during those times. As per my site I say the best time to catch me is weekdays between 9 and 5, but I often get people only wanting me to call them back in an evening, and it's not often possible for me to do so, so we never get to speak.
-If people leave me messages but say I can’t call them back and they’ll call me back, we never get to speak.
- They have left me a voice mail in unsociable hours. Between 10pm and 9 am, and messages left on a Sunday.
- They have left me a voice mail but continue to call multiple times throughout the day (this sends the warning bells loud and clear for me to avoid the person!) If it’s not convenient you won’t get answered no matter how many times you call!
- Many people don’t leave their number! What they forget is that if I have a number of missed calls I don’t know which number is for which message. The more information I get in a voicemail the better, aside from the persons phone number I especially want to know in a voicemail if we’ve met before, and a full name. And the only numbers I ever save are those from people that have a confirmed date and/or we've met before. So if you are calling me back and leaving me a voice mail after I've called you back, you need to leave your number again.
- Messages with words like 'services' and 'session' I tend to avoid.
- They've only left me a land line number and I never catch them in. I need a mobile number to confirm a date anyway, so it's best to call and leave a message from a mobile.

As long as there’s at least a weeks notice I think and email is a good first step. I need as much information as possible… nice introduction, a brief bit about the person, then full details of when, where and how long someone wants to meet for, or at least a rough idea.

Once we’ve touched base by email it’s easy then to arrange to speak because we can arrange a mutually convenient time for one of us to call, and it saves us keeping missing each other.

One guy I kept missing by phone, and he kept missing me. In the end we never ended up setting up a date when he was in my area, but if he’d have emailed me we could have arranged things quickly. It transpired after we’d failed to arrange the date, I happened to be looking through my diary and saw that we’d met before, but as he never mentioned this in his voice-mails, I thought it was someone new and that’s why I kept trying to speak to him. As it happened as we had met before I would have been happy to arrange things by text or email.

Repeated calling will never get a response because this tells me, the persons impatient, obsessive and possibly a bit of a control freak. People calling in unsociable hours are inconsiderate.

Of course I may be wrong to generalize, but being an escort we can’t do the researching you guys can on us ladies through our reviews and websites. We have to use other methods to suss out a persons character and decide if we want to get to know the person better by arranging a date.

Bea Nottingham escort blog - Being ill!

2008-12-08T01:01:00.000-08:00

Well it's just a little up date to know I am finally on the mend! Usually when I get ill I shut down, and spend a couple of days in bed. I drink lots of fluids, ginger and also lemon with honey, pump up on vitamin C and zinc, and as well as medication I also take Seven Seas mineral tonic. That combined with staying in and keeping warm usually means I have a quick recovery. However this time it has taken much longer to shift this nasty virus.

I really love living on my own but hate it when I am ill when all I really want is a big strong man to look after me! :)

Unfortunately I had to cancel a date on Thursday in London. I felt so bad. I know a lot of girls don't care and some will go out drinking and cancel a date if they have a hang over or something better comes up or they just simply don't feel like going. I never ever do, I'm extremely reliable, but I always worry that people won't believe me when I cancel because I'm ill. I hate letting people down and really beat myself up about it even though there's nothing I can do. In 8 years I have probably made 10 cancellations - averaging just over one a year.

I just think how disappointed the person will be and put a lot of pressure on myself, which I know is silly. At the end of the day there's no point in me going if I am not myself because it doesn't make a good experience for my date, and when you're ill you just want to be tucked up in your own bed and not a hotel bed.

Anyhow I'm pleased it's out the way in time for Christmas, so hopefully I'll be in good health now over Christmas and New Year.

Anyhow I must shoot I have lots to catch up on after being out of action for so long!

Apologies to those who have tried to call and email and haven't yet had a response. I will be returning all my calls and emails today XXXXX

Bea escort blog... Ill in bed!

2008-12-04T03:47:00.000-08:00

Really sorry peeps. I have woken up with a rotten virus and feel absolutely terrible. I have someone bringing me round some supplies from the chemists and I'm going to stay tucked up in bed, so apologies, please bear with me if you are trying to call or email me. As soon as I am back on my feet I'll report on here. I'm back off to bed :( XXXX

Bea's whimsical musings

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I started dated this girl about 9 months ago, a month in she tells me she escorted. I'm in love with her but for some reasons when I look at her all I picture is another dude inside her its horrible and killing me! what do I do?

Do you consider yourself to be happier now than when you were escorting? Also interested to know how you define happiness, and what you think the key ingredients are to achieving it, from your own experiences. Are sex, money & 'success' key ingredients?

have you ever had sex so bad that when you were done you thought (or said out loud) "why did i bother?"

Which of Santa's lists would you prefer to be on naughty or nice?

have you ever done something you didn't like or didn't want to do because you "just need the money"?

My theory is that she offloads all of her guilt on to me and she uses me to give her a alibi, when in fact she's meeting up with her lover! I'm friends with her foremost but I don't want to get caught up in her lies. Should I subtly end our friendship?

I've recently joined a dating website and stated I want a relationship but responses from men are clearly after 1 thing!I've been on 2 dates and their profile/pictures looked great but in real life nothing like their profiles. Where an I going wrong?!

A work colleague whom I also socialise with outside of work has confided in me that she's having an affair. She blames her husbands lack of interest in her for the reason why. Her husband is a good friend of mine.should I tell him or keep my mouth shut?!

Hi Rebecca. Do you relationship advice for girls as well as guys? I often get my female friends asking me for advice and at times I really struggle what to tell them!

Do you miss the 'buzz' of being an escort, and having sex on a regular basis? I guess if you are happy within yourself, you don't really need the 'buzz' or constant sex. Has it taken a while for you to adjust in how you relate to people?

when you get negative comments or "hate" from someone, do you find it easier to easier to brush away comments that come from men or women?

So have you read the Daniel Rose's Sex God Method ebook or not? ;)

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many dating sites prohibit users from posting information like e-mail addressed and in some cases even real names. if you've joined a site but don't want to pay to be a long-term, or even short term, subscriber, do you advocate trying to skirt this rule?

You said that being an ex-escort puts men off. Personally, I've only ever had sex with prostitutes, so a prostitute girlfriend or wife would be perfect for me. Don't give up, there must be loads of men who like prostitutes so much, they want to marry one.

What's your favorite saying?

Are you still practising aikido? i think we were in class together at the beginning but I stopped after a few classes. James here. What ryu are you now?

read your blog post of aug. 7. while i consider myself a positive person, i've also been shy & introverted at times. how do you keep a woman's initial interest if you're not a naturally boisterous or talkative person?

Do you think couples speak too much in a relationship. Get themselves tied in knots cos of it. And get worried when they've nothing to say. When words aren't really what is required. Just being with each other in the situation is very often enough.

a friend & i fancy each other & have talked about a relationship. she doesn't think she can be in a romantic relationship with me, though, because i watch & collect porn. is there a way to convince her i can set aside the porn for her without selling it?

YOU JUST WOKE UP NAKED IN BED NEXT TO ME. Using only 3 words, what would you say to me? ...Note: If you comment, you must copy and and ask me the same question. So I comment on yours as well. Be a good sport. Play along :)

you've been going out with someone for a short amount of time you like each other, but haven't had sex yet... every time you suggest dinner, a pub or music club to get to know her better, she suggests going dancing or partying... what to do?

I am dating a lady that I intially met as an escort. Shortly afterwards we started dating and she told me she loved me...Now I have fallen in love with her. What are your experiences and your suggestions for two people that are in love that initiallty met

Hi Rebecca jsu finished your book, very good indeed x

during one of your "sex sessions", for lack of a better term, have you & your partner simply sat & masturbated together without touching each other until after you both have had orgasms?

would you consider a guy/girl undateable if they didn't like the same music you did?

to the women i am friends with, i'm usually the guy they complain to about their asshole boyfriends when i inevitably hear "why can't i find a guy just like you?" how do i get them to dump their asshole boyfriends and choose me?

You seem very pretty, in more ways than one. From what I have seen and read about you. What are you looking for in a relationship, and how do you meet potentially suitable guys? If your criteria matches my 'profile', I'd like to ask you out on a date.

It is sometimes said that men think about only two things most of the time. Money & sex. But when they get them they always want more. Never satisfied. What do you think the solution is? Could men benefit from thinking more like women?

Do you practice what you preach, in advising people who are looking for a relationship the best way to go about it? Or do you have your own 'approach'?

Has escorting put you off seeking a relationship with 'the right person'? i.e. all men have the potential to stray off the beaten path. Do you think men know what love is, and what a relationship means?

With all this talk about celebs, gagging orders & keeping their names out of papers. From your ex client list anybody famous who might be worried now since you've become known in the public eye lol !

Are you still there? You're not answering my questions, gorgeous.

What makes for the most heavenly cunnilingus?

As you prefer circumcised, would you have the operation performed on your sons, should you have any?

Do you prefer that your men be fully shaved? Are you?

Please elaborate on why you prefer circumcised. Does it affect the feeling of penetrative sex?

I was asking in the context of men/woman & agree with your comments. I lost my true soulmate some years ago in this way & there is not a week that goes by without me having some special memories of her. My life was empty without her. But you do move on

Do you think platonic relaionships really work ?

When you date now does being an 'ex escort' cause any reservations from your dates & what is the normal reaction from them

Do you have any plans. Beyond our business. Or do you focus on what you are doing right now as much as possible. Without any regrets about the past, or worries about the future. ?

Just found out my girlfriend is an escort, she hid this from me so I've dumped her I can't even stomach looking at her and never will. Just waiting for the HIV test now yay. So what do you think of women who escort and try and date at the same time?

Just found out my girlfriend is an escort, she hid this from me so I've dumped her I can't even stomach looking at her and never will. Just waiting for the HIV test now yay. So what do you think of women who escort and try and date at the same time?

You specialised in overnight bookings and long weekends with clients. Many requests for such expensive bookings tend to be from fantasists rather than genuine clients. How did you screen out the timewasters?

Hi Bea - Thanks for a very interesting book! Couldnt put it down and read it in a few days! :) Have been thinking of escorting myself and thought I'd read your book to get some insight into the "real" world of escorting. Thanks for sharing ur experiences!

Would like to ask you about your new "platonic escort" service. Does this really work? Have been thinking of it myself but is there really a demand for this? Seem to be able to find only rather tacky websites out there that offer this.. Thanks. Ziggy

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