Thursday, 12 April 2012
Thursday, 2 February 2012
i recently met a woman after a concert; she's a friend of a friend. we're both from the same city & were getting on well, when there came a point when we both just stopped talking & i didn't know how to restart the conversation.
Hi Rebecca I have been married 30 yrs next month and love my wife more like a sister these days. I don't know why but our sex life is practically non existent these days. Only the other day my wife came onto me when it suited her and I just lost it
oh no! Have you aplogised to her for 'losing it'? The air definitely needs to be cleared otherwise next time you make an attempt at intimacy she will reject you and she's unlikely to try again, so the wedge between you will get bigger. She was trying to bring the intimacy back, and now she will be feeling hurt, rejected and undesired. Try to put yourself in her shoes and think how you would feel. I'm guessing that you don't have children at home anymore, so there is no excuse for not making quality time for each other. Are you leading seperate lives? Are you still physicaly attracted to your wife? If you can tell me a bit more I can better advise you...
Thursday, 8 December 2011
Tuesday, 6 December 2011
Monday, 14 November 2011
I started dated this girl about 9 months ago, a month in she tells me she escorted. I'm in love with her but for some reasons when I look at her all I picture is another dude inside her its horrible and killing me! what do I do?
Most people have a sexual past...do you think this way with women in general (ie picture other 'dudes' inside her) or is her sexual past only an issue because of her job as an escort? I personally don't see why you should view it differently to a girl who has multiple partners that hasn't escorted. It's in her past and she's been very open with you. If you care for her and want to make it work you need to put her past job where it should be - in the past, and move forwards. It's not very nice for her if you are thinking about her with other men when you are having sex with her, because I can guarentee she won't be thinking about her past clients when she's having sex with you - she will be thinking about you.
Thursday, 10 November 2011
Do you consider yourself to be happier now than when you were escorting? Also interested to know how you define happiness, and what you think the key ingredients are to achieving it, from your own experiences. Are sex, money & 'success' key ingredients?
I am generally a very happy person, and when I was escorting yes I was happy with my profession, and I am equally happy now on my exciting journey since I finished escorting. Everyone has different values/desires you can't define one formular that will make everyone happy because everyone is different.