Thursday, 12 April 2012
Thursday, 2 February 2012
i recently met a woman after a concert; she's a friend of a friend. we're both from the same city & were getting on well, when there came a point when we both just stopped talking & i didn't know how to restart the conversation.
Hi Rebecca I have been married 30 yrs next month and love my wife more like a sister these days. I don't know why but our sex life is practically non existent these days. Only the other day my wife came onto me when it suited her and I just lost it
oh no! Have you aplogised to her for 'losing it'? The air definitely needs to be cleared otherwise next time you make an attempt at intimacy she will reject you and she's unlikely to try again, so the wedge between you will get bigger. She was trying to bring the intimacy back, and now she will be feeling hurt, rejected and undesired. Try to put yourself in her shoes and think how you would feel. I'm guessing that you don't have children at home anymore, so there is no excuse for not making quality time for each other. Are you leading seperate lives? Are you still physicaly attracted to your wife? If you can tell me a bit more I can better advise you...