If you have any further concerns or want any advice about getting your head around what has just happened, please feel free to email me via my website. I'd be more than happy to help.
Thursday, 31 March 2011
Just found out my girlfriend is an escort, she hid this from me so I've dumped her I can't even stomach looking at her and never will. Just waiting for the HIV test now yay. So what do you think of women who escort and try and date at the same time?
Please don't worry about the HIV test. Escorts are some of the cleanest ladies around. I am confident you will be fine. I never had an std in 9 years working as an escort. I was honest with all of my boyfriends. I had 3 long term relationships. I think any sort of deceit is wrong and I'm sorry that she did it behind your back. In her defence I can only say that she may have deeply cared for you/loved you, and didn't want to lose you, so she kept it a secret. Not the right thing to do,but the longer you leave a secret/lie then the harder it is to tell the truth. I can completely understand that men don't want to date escorts, but it is a job, and nothing more than that. It does take a special sort of guy to date an escort, and that's no disrespect to those that wouldn't. Why don't you have a read of my book The Girlfriend Experience? I think it will help you understand why women chose this profession. I know of many escorts that are married and in relationships and their men are fully aware and accept what they do. One of my ex'es said he could never go out with an escort, then after hanging out with him for a couple of weeks, he got to know me as a person, I spoke about my work and explained to him that people got my body but not 'me'. For me to be inimate with someone and genuinely enjoy it, there needs to be an emotional connection. Eventually he understood that. Our intimacy time was special and I cherished it. o in the end he didn't judge me by my work, and ended up saying he could easily fall in love with me, and we did fall in love.
Tuesday, 29 March 2011
You specialised in overnight bookings and long weekends with clients. Many requests for such expensive bookings tend to be from fantasists rather than genuine clients. How did you screen out the timewasters?
Over time it became easy to spot time wasters from their emails or a short phone conversation. Generally my weekend bookings and longer engagements came from people I had seen before. I always took deposits for anything over an overnight, and this cut out time wasters. I am offering a coaching service by phone or email for ladies who want to become escorts, you might find my services on this page useful... http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv/how-to-become-an-escort/
Saturday, 12 March 2011
Hi Bea - Thanks for a very interesting book! Couldnt put it down and read it in a few days! :) Have been thinking of escorting myself and thought I'd read your book to get some insight into the "real" world of escorting. Thanks for sharing ur experiences!
thank you for your feedback, I am so pleased you enjoyed my book. How did you hear about it? So what did you decide after reading my book? I am now offering escort mentoring/coaching and I'm surprised at how much interest there is, so if you do want to start and need some help and advice, do take a look here at the services I offer... http://www.thegirlfriendexperience.tv/how-to-become-an-escort/
Would like to ask you about your new "platonic escort" service. Does this really work? Have been thinking of it myself but is there really a demand for this? Seem to be able to find only rather tacky websites out there that offer this.. Thanks. Ziggy
I very, very rarely get platonic dates, so don't give up your day job lol :) There are some, but guess it's easier for me as I already had the traffic going to my site, but to start from scratch, I'm not sure. And I'm guessing you're a guy, so once again, I'm not sure of what it's like for men. You'll need to ask guys that offer platonic dates. I would imagine there is more of a service for men offering platonic dates than there is for women. I don't know of any agencies/listing sites that advertise platonic dates. Sorry I can't be of more help.