Wednesday, 24 December 2008

Bea Nottingham escort blog - ho ho merry Christmas :)

I just want to wish all my readers and friends a very merry Christmas and happy New Year!

People either love or hate Christmas... I am a lover! :)

My mum makes such an effort - bless her. She makes all her own food including the Christmas cake, mince pies, pud, chestnut stuffing, lots of desserts, even the candle decorations she picks fresh holly and ivy and makes them.

We always have a very traditional Christmas. We all have to stir the Christmas pud and make a wish before she cooks it. As we're all dotted about the country it's difficult for her to get everyone to stir it before Christmas. Last year the time we were all going to be together was for lunch at a local pub for my birthday in October, so at the end of our pub meal (there was about 10 of us) in the car park my mum opens the boot, and brings out a box, on which she stands the pud in a mixing bowl, and we all had to stir it and make a wish, much to the amusement of all the passers by! :)))

Santa still comes to our house, even though all 4 of us are grown up now! We get silly little fun things in our stockings along with a satsuma and nuts. It always gives us all a good giggle Christmas morning.

Then we have champagne and smoked salmon and scrambled eggs. Lunch is usually rather late, 2-3 pm, and after we've eaten we all sit together with coffees and/Baileys and mince pies and Christmas cake and we unwrap presents and admire our own and each others gifts.

After an hour or so its turkey sandwich time! Then it's endless games of trivial pursuit, charades, boggle and all sorts of games :) Charades is my favourite! My mum won the prize for the funniest last year - 'Midsummer Murders', where she went round us all pretending to strangle us, making strange noises and then collapsing and dying herself! She does a bit of acting so she is always very dramatic :)

So for me I love Christmas. People say that it's the kids that make Christmas... not in our house! Well maybe its because we all act like big kids that makes it so much fun!

Please bear with me if you try and contact me over this next week. I am not around today/tomorrow or NYE/day, and I have various things planned with friends and family in between.

Enjoy the festive season and all the best for 2009!

Toodle pip, Bea XXXXX

Tuesday, 23 December 2008

Bea Nottingham Escort - a wee trip to bonny Scotland!

I have just come back from a wonderful few days in Loch Lomond. My date and I stayed at the fabulous hotel Cameron House. Guys if ever you want to treat a lady this place is highly recommended!

Our room had views over the Loch that were simply breathtaking! The hotel itself although vast has a certain intimacy about it. The decor is dark wood giving it that rustic oldy worldy look, but with modern touches. There's 4 fantastic restaurants. Two of which are at the hotel. The Grill, and the Michelin starred Martin Wishart restaurant. There's also 2 bars on the premises - the Great Scots Bar and the Whisky Bar.

We had a delicious meal at the Grill on our first night and after pre dinner drinks in the Scots Bar, and on our second night we ate an exquisite food from the 'taster menu' in the Martin Wishart restaurant with drinks after in the Whisky bar along with a few games of the card game shit head (one of my favourite card games :)

During the day we went quad biking. The weather was perfect for this as there had been so much rain! It was so much fun. Although we were top to toe in water proofs I still managed to get my face splattered with lots of mud! I love going really fast on quad bikes but also doing the challenging circuits through the woods.

Then we had a quick change and wash before boarding the boat for a champagne cruise down the Loch. The views are stunning and we were so lucky with the weather. The one day we wanted it to be clear of rain, it was :)

I spent the next day in the spa at Carrick, with it's outdoor hot tub and sauna over looking the fantastic views!

A perfect end to a perfect date :) Thanks J for a fun, and both action packed and relaxing couple of days! XXX

Monday, 15 December 2008

Bea Nottingham escort blog - Christmas party!

Here's me with a giggly, sexy Amber ogling my boobies and the gorgeous Miss Dolly! :)

I was in London this weekend for the Captain 69 Christmas party! Kindly organized by BdN... many thanks XXX

There was a bunch of male members and escorts from both this site and the new up and coming Last Page site...

Amber helped me decide on my party outfit of a black basque and black pencil skirt. I have to say all us ladies looked pretty damn hot!

It was great to see some familiar faces and to also put faces to various people I'd chatted to online in forums that I'd not met before. It's a little unnerving at first at these sorts of parties because everyone knows who us ladies are but we don't know which face belongs to which pseudonym for the guys, but once people introduced themselves the evening was relaxed and fun.

Boy what fun we had! As usual with parties there were quite a lot of no shows but the northern birds were out in force. If I can figure out how to get this photo off my phone I'll post it on here! There was my dear fellow northern friends Amber and Dolly Mopp, and I met a lovely lady I hadn't met before Sascha another northerner who is based now in London.

We had a meal and lots of champagne at a secret London venue. I'm sure most people imagine that these are sleazy parties, but it was just a bunch of guys and ladies having a good old knees up with lots of food and drinks and some party games! We finished up at the Carlton Towers for a nightcap ... another champagne cocktail :-)

Amber and I called it a night about 2, and staggered back to our hotel for our beauty sleep.

Toodle pip, Bea XXXX

Bea Nottingham Escort blog - getting in touch, and vetting people

I have to say I'm very fussy with whom I see and speak to. I think the day, time and number of times a person calls, and their message tells me a lot about some ones character. In this business we ladies have to rely a lot on our instincts :)

My phone I always let go to answer machine because I like to hear a person’s voice before I call them back. I don't call everyone back.

Some of the reasons I don’t call people back are…
-I can’t understand the message and/or they say the number too fast
-I delete the message by mistake... ooops it does happen
-I'm only given a certain times to call and it’s not convenient for me to call during those times. As per my site I say the best time to catch me is weekdays between 9 and 5, but I often get people only wanting me to call them back in an evening, and it's not often possible for me to do so, so we never get to speak.
-If people leave me messages but say I can’t call them back and they’ll call me back, we never get to speak.
- They have left me a voice mail in unsociable hours. Between 10pm and 9 am, and messages left on a Sunday.
- They have left me a voice mail but continue to call multiple times throughout the day (this sends the warning bells loud and clear for me to avoid the person!) If it’s not convenient you won’t get answered no matter how many times you call!
- Many people don’t leave their number! What they forget is that if I have a number of missed calls I don’t know which number is for which message. The more information I get in a voicemail the better, aside from the persons phone number I especially want to know in a voicemail if we’ve met before, and a full name. And the only numbers I ever save are those from people that have a confirmed date and/or we've met before. So if you are calling me back and leaving me a voice mail after I've called you back, you need to leave your number again.
- Messages with words like 'services' and 'session' I tend to avoid.
- They've only left me a land line number and I never catch them in. I need a mobile number to confirm a date anyway, so it's best to call and leave a message from a mobile.

As long as there’s at least a weeks notice I think and email is a good first step. I need as much information as possible… nice introduction, a brief bit about the person, then full details of when, where and how long someone wants to meet for, or at least a rough idea.

Once we’ve touched base by email it’s easy then to arrange to speak because we can arrange a mutually convenient time for one of us to call, and it saves us keeping missing each other.

One guy I kept missing by phone, and he kept missing me. In the end we never ended up setting up a date when he was in my area, but if he’d have emailed me we could have arranged things quickly. It transpired after we’d failed to arrange the date, I happened to be looking through my diary and saw that we’d met before, but as he never mentioned this in his voice-mails, I thought it was someone new and that’s why I kept trying to speak to him. As it happened as we had met before I would have been happy to arrange things by text or email.

Repeated calling will never get a response because this tells me, the persons impatient, obsessive and possibly a bit of a control freak. People calling in unsociable hours are inconsiderate.

Of course I may be wrong to generalize, but being an escort we can’t do the researching you guys can on us ladies through our reviews and websites. We have to use other methods to suss out a persons character and decide if we want to get to know the person better by arranging a date.

Monday, 8 December 2008

Bea Nottingham escort blog - Being ill!

Well it's just a little up date to know I am finally on the mend! Usually when I get ill I shut down, and spend a couple of days in bed. I drink lots of fluids, ginger and also lemon with honey, pump up on vitamin C and zinc, and as well as medication I also take Seven Seas mineral tonic. That combined with staying in and keeping warm usually means I have a quick recovery. However this time it has taken much longer to shift this nasty virus.

I really love living on my own but hate it when I am ill when all I really want is a big strong man to look after me! :)

Unfortunately I had to cancel a date on Thursday in London. I felt so bad. I know a lot of girls don't care and some will go out drinking and cancel a date if they have a hang over or something better comes up or they just simply don't feel like going. I never ever do, I'm extremely reliable, but I always worry that people won't believe me when I cancel because I'm ill. I hate letting people down and really beat myself up about it even though there's nothing I can do. In 8 years I have probably made 10 cancellations - averaging just over one a year.

I just think how disappointed the person will be and put a lot of pressure on myself, which I know is silly. At the end of the day there's no point in me going if I am not myself because it doesn't make a good experience for my date, and when you're ill you just want to be tucked up in your own bed and not a hotel bed.

Anyhow I'm pleased it's out the way in time for Christmas, so hopefully I'll be in good health now over Christmas and New Year.

Anyhow I must shoot I have lots to catch up on after being out of action for so long!

Apologies to those who have tried to call and email and haven't yet had a response. I will be returning all my calls and emails today XXXXX

Thursday, 4 December 2008

Bea escort blog... Ill in bed!

Really sorry peeps. I have woken up with a rotten virus and feel absolutely terrible. I have someone bringing me round some supplies from the chemists and I'm going to stay tucked up in bed, so apologies, please bear with me if you are trying to call or email me. As soon as I am back on my feet I'll report on here. I'm back off to bed :( XXXX

Tuesday, 2 December 2008

Escort blog - The Good Food Show!

Last week I was lucky enough to go to the good food show! Now food for me is better than sex ;-) haha!

No I am a serious foody and decided that I was going to go to the show with my mum for a day out.

I booked tickets to see the daddy - Gordon Ramsey (naughty boy ;-) and I had been so excited looking forward to watching his cooking demonstration - 'done' :) He joked about his press coverage (which was all he could have done really), and he was as funny and entertaining as expected.

My mum and I were sitting on the end of the seats when he made his entrance and I had to stop myself from having a little pinch of his bum as he came past! Lol Yes he is super sexy!!! I know you guys won't understand but some of you ladies will ;-)

We spent the day tasting different foods and drinking different wines. A day of foraging, what could be better? :) My mum especially enjoyed the whiskey tasting!

We also arranged wine tasting with Olly Smith, who was also like Ramsey quite a character, as was Lesley Waters.

At the hotel after my mum decided to accost Lesley Waters on her way past and tell her how much she enjoyed her demonstration... lovely lady!

That's all for now folks... toodle pip XXXXX